A thought....

Do you ever look at other's and think to yourself....'How are their lives soo perfect?' Well....I do. I shouldn't, but I do. I've been working on changing my way of thinking for a while now and it's gotten a little better! So far, what works for me, is trying to be happy with myself...My way of being happy with myself? Shopping of course! LOL. I know how bad that sounds, but hey right now it works for me.

I know, I have a long way to go...I'll get there, eventually.

Ok, now that I have said that. Do you think their all looking at you and thinking the exact same thing? I'm learning that appearances can often be confusing; what seems to be isn't always the case. Lets face it, a lot of us are good at pretending/covering up; me included.

How can anyone know that you have a need if you never show it? Or maybe we don't want anyone to know? Do we keep on going like we're all perfect? is it ok to show other people that you have problems too? Do we really want people to know that we dance around the house and sing in the shower? Ok, maybe that last one is just me.

So my goal is to not worry about what other people have that I don't and to try not to make assumptions about other people's so called 'happiness' or what I view to be as 'perfection'. No one is perfect. I also have to learn that it's okay if someone knows all about my imperfections.

Thats all for now! I have an online learning lecture to try and get to!

Take Care All!
~Julie